Our mission
Why we stand.
Gender-based violence and femicide are a national disaster in South Africa. Drive4Her exists because men have to be part of ending it, and because survivors need services that donations help fund.
Most are killed by a partner.
Nearly 60% of women murdered in South Africa are killed by an intimate partner. The country’s femicide rate was 10.6 per 100,000 women.
Source: SAMRC national femicide study, 2020/21, reported October 2024In November 2025, gender-based violence and femicide were classified as a national disaster under the Disaster Management Act.
Source: Daily Maverick, 21 November 2025It starts long before violence.
South Africa’s National Strategic Plan on GBVF names ideas of masculinity centred on men’s control of women as a root cause.
That control shows up in small things first. Jokes. Jealousy passed off as love. A mate nobody challenges.
Source: National Strategic Plan on GBVF, Pillar 2What we ask of men.
- Do not laugh along. Jokes about hitting women or “putting her in her place” make the real thing easier to excuse.
- Do not stay silent about a mate. Checking her phone, tracking her, controlling her money or cutting her off from friends is abuse. Say something.
- Believe women. When a woman tells you she is being hurt, listen. Do not ask what she did.
- Look at how you drive past women. Hooting, shouting or slowing down beside a woman on the pavement is intimidation, not attention.
- Give. Survivors need shelter and counselling. Donations help fund them.
Our space. Our responsibility.
Women are approximately 30% of employees in South Africa’s organised automotive retail aftermarket.
Source: Retail Motor Industry Organisation, citing MIBCO workforce dataMen make up the larger share of this world. That gives us rooms most campaigns cannot reach: forecourts, workshops, club chats and track days. We intend to use them.
Find your roleNot for women. With them.
Women do not need rescuing by a motorcade. They need men who stop making excuses, and services that stay open.
We follow the lead of people who do this work every day, starting with The Saartjie Baartman Centre for Women and Children.
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